Part-Time Assistant

I am looking for a highly intelligent, socially perceptive woman to assist with a private international social and dating research project.

This is a **part-time personal research and operations role**, not a customer-service or generic virtual-assistant position.

The work involves researching people and social environments, filtering opportunities, organising information and assisting with dating-related logistics across several European and international cities.

What you would do

* Research dating profiles and identify potentially relevant matches based on detailed criteria.
* Review Instagram and other publicly available social information to better understand context, lifestyle and compatibility.
* Maintain a private database/CRM of profiles, conversations, dates and outcomes.
* Help organise and prioritise conversations and opportunities.
* Use AI tools to accelerate research, classification and organisation.
* Prepare suggested conversation ideas or replies for review.
* Research events, communities, clubs, restaurants and social environments in different cities.
* Coordinate dates and logistics when required.
* Analyse feedback after dates and improve the selection criteria over time.

You will **not impersonate the client** or conduct intimate conversations pretending to be him. Personal communication remains his responsibility. Your role is research, filtering, preparation and organisation.

Who I am looking for

This role requires unusually strong social judgement.

You should be someone who:

* understands contemporary dating culture very well;
* has excellent intuition about people;
* can distinguish genuine quality from superficial Instagram presentation;
* understands female social dynamics;
* has good taste and strong cultural awareness;
* is extremely discreet;
* writes excellent English;
* is comfortable researching people online;
* is highly organised;
* is comfortable using AI tools;
* can work independently without constant supervision.

Particularly relevant backgrounds

* Recruiting / talent sourcing
* Executive or personal assistance
* Luxury hospitality
* Concierge
* Matchmaking
* Casting / talent management
* Social media research
* High-end events
* Lifestyle management
* Research / sourcing

Location

Preference for candidates based in:

Spain, UK, Western Europe, USA or Latin America.

Applications from offshore virtual-assistant agencies or candidates primarily operating as outsourced call-centre/VA services are not relevant.

Hours:

Approximately **10–15 hours per week**, with flexibility.

The workload may vary depending on travel and activity.

This is intended to become a long-term relationship if the initial trial works well.

Compensation:

Please state your preferred hourly rate and your availability.

I am willing to pay above typical VA rates for someone with exceptional judgement, discretion and social intelligence.

Application:
Please answer these questions rather than sending a generic cover letter:

- Where are you currently based?**
- What is your age?
- What is your professional background?
- Which dating/social platforms do you personally understand well?
- Which AI tools do you use regularly?**
- Describe a situation where you had to judge someone's personality or intentions from limited information.
- What hourly rate would you expect?**

Please include your LinkedIn profile or equivalent professional profile.

This is a confidential private role. Discretion is essential.